I'm an animal lover ... that needs to come first. And by that I mean, I'm a huge animal lover. I have several rescue cats and dogs who will always be my first priority. I'm in the process of setting up an animal rescue website awareness about animal cruelty and neglect, especially in Spain, where I live.
That probably needs mentioning too. If I've visited your profile, and you're wondering why someone hundreds or thousands of kilometres/miles away is looking at you, it's because I'm open to long distance. I've dated enough to know that compatible women don't tend to live next door, and I enjoy travelling, so wouldn't it be wonderful if I could combine my love of travelling with meeting someone amazing.
I'm a feminist (the egalitarian rather than man hating type), my politics are mostly left wing. If I'd been able to vote in either of the big elections in 2016, I would have voted for Remain and Hillary. I value equality, safety nets, and equal opportunities for all, but I also value freedom. I believe we should all be able to live our lives on our own terms ... as long as we do no harm to others. I don't identify as pagan, but I do try to follow the pagan creed of 'An it harm none, do what thou wilt'.
I'm a Libran, an INTP on the Myers-Briggs scale, and my primary love language is touch. I'm honest 'to a fault' and value honesty very highly in others.
I've just (April 2017) moved to a new town, so meeting people and making friends is a priority right now. There aren't many foreigners here, so becoming fluent in Spanish is also a priority. And also finding new doggy friends for my dogs to play with.
|Home Location||Vélez-Málaga, Málaga, Spain|
|Height||5.2" (157 cm)|
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I'm not exactly sure what I'm looking for. How does 'friendship, and see what comes of it' sound?
Maybe I'll find someone to hang out with, someone to go walking or cycling with, a casual fling, a kinky play partner ... did I mention I'm kinky? Or maybe I'll find a lifetime relationship. I really have no preconceptions about this part.
But here's what you need to know.
I make connections best on a mental level before anything, and that means I like to exchange messages or emails for at least a few weeks before meeting in real life. In the past, I've met strangers off the internet, and the meeting has felt awkward, with long silences, and I've gone away feeling like it didn't work. But I've met people who I've spent a few weeks getting to know, and we've talked non-stop like old friends. I know which I prefer.
Age, appearance, whether or not you have tattoos or piecings (and all that irrelevant stuff), isn't important to me. The thing that matters most when I connect with someone is having similar moral values, and that's something you only figure out as you get to know each other. Even having interests in common isn't that important. I'm interested in most things, and discovering new interests is at least as exciting as finding things in common.
Things that are important to me ...
You don't smoke. I hate the smell of cigarette smoke, plus I'm asthmatic and it messes with my lungs.
You love animals, and you enjoy being around them. It isn't possible to spend much time around me without also spending time with animals!
And that's about it! If something kept you reading this far, it's probably time to send me a message.
|Interested in||Men, Women|
|Occupation||Admin & Secretarial|
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