I am a dominant man. I am just that. I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part. Not because I feel I am more intelligent, or wiser. I am not dominant because of the strength or mass of my body. I am not, nor would I want to be, dominant with all men. Yet to you, I am your Master. I am your Master only after earning your trust and embracing your submission. I have looked into your heart and mind and have seen your desires and passions. You have thrown away your fears and inhibitions. You have told me of the needs of your heart, mind and body and given me access to your soul -- I accept that honor and responsibility.
ABOUT MY MATCH:
Well you do not need to be experienced as I welcome novices. The strong desire to obey, serve and be controlled is necessary. I do not care about your weight,Age, height or shape, It's your attitude and desires that will attract me. While cyber and phone is acceptable in the beginning, I am seeking a REAL TIME Dom/sub relationship. I can travel easily. I have a flexible schedule so weekday meetings are easy for me. I do not care if you are married or single and I am VERY discreet. You MUST be disease free, no exceptions. I will respect your hard limits. I do not "play" on the first meeting. If you seek a Dominant or Master, or if you wish to explore your submissive feelings in a safe, sane manner, contact me
MY POINT OF VIEW AS A DOMINANT:
Being a Dominant is not like the military where rank assumes obedience. The “rank” of Dominant or Master is not assumed by the Dominant but bestowed by a submissive. This is important because it cuts to the heart of why a Dominant has the authority to give “orders” in the first place. A Dom only has power because he has been granted that power by the submissive. And a submissive grants that power to someone he respects, trusts, desires, and believes has his best interests at heart. He grants it to someone with whom he feels completely safe and protected. So yes, I as a Dominant do in fact give orders. But my orders are not simply motivated by desire for blind obedience but are often targeted at a higher purpose. Sure, often they are for my personal pleasure. But they are also designed to instill knowledge, establish norms of behavior, set expectations for performance, and above all, challenge my sub to be the best person he can possibly be both in and outside our relationship. They are also designed to similarly challenge me. I always strive to be a better person, a better partner, a better Dominant, and have our mutual interests always at heart. Being a Dominant is less about assuming authority than being a leader. A leader earns the right to lead. My sub gives me all the power I have as a Dominant. What I do with that power is up to me. But if I use it unwisely or selfishly, it will evaporate and my sub will opt to vote with his feet. D/s is, after all, a consensual agreement between two free persons and thus can be terminated when one or the other is not satisfied. D/s and even M/s are not true slavery, even when we choose to call it that. Ultimately, the submissive decides who will be his leader or if he will take on a leader at all. It is that decision that empowers the Dominant, and that decision is earned, not taken.
|Home Location||London, England, United Kingdom|
|Height||6.2" (188 cm)|
|Tattoos||One or Two|
|Piercings||One or Two|
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Dominant top here looking for eager sub/slave to play and to serve.
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Been a master for almost 5 years now
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Has my Own Private dungeon
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|Aged between||18 - 99|
|Occupation||Banking & Financial Services|
|Diet||I eat everything|
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