I am a 22 year old Malaysian guy who lives in KL. I speak fluent Cantonese and Mandarin as well as good English.
Pressure from my family on me getting a girlfriend (and eventually getting married) is a big issue for me. I know I am a bit too young to worry about this for now, but I reckon it's good to think about this earlier and have everything planned before it is too late and my family raises their suspicions on my interest in girls.
I have been thinking of just marrying a heterosexual woman and just live my life without discrimination under a heterosexual marriage. But apparently this selfish action of mine is gonna ruin the whole life of the poor lady that I choose to marry, plus I wouldn't be truly happy for my whole life due to the guilt deep inside. In fact I had a girlfriend last year and it didn't go well because I wasn't interested in her at all. I was just wasting my precious time for her. I felt bad when I held her hand and when she cried for me...
You might ask me why don't come out of the closet and face the world. I can be honest with you that I can't handle the consequences of coming out. Not in a homophobic city of KL.
So marrying a lesbian and then divorce after maybe 4 years living together might solve the problem. After divorcing, people would think that I am heterosexual and I can live my own life after that. Maybe adopt a child myself.
Well... I just need to sort of "do some survey" about this. Please do let me know if any of your friends have done this and whether or not it worked well.
|Home Location||Kuala Lumpur, Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia|
|Height||5.7" (170 cm)|
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A lesbian who can be my girlfriend so that we can live with no discrimination and no suspicions from family and friends.
I wish to meet more homosexual friends online because I have only got one homosexual friend so far and that's not great. I want someone to talk to. XD
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