Jeffery

@Jeffery-MY is a 55 year old Gay Male from Petaling Jaya, Selangor, Malaysia. He is looking for Relationship.

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Introduction

Out-of-Closet Top Looking For A Travel Partner. Life's Journey. That means staying power is essential. Do you have what it takes? Write to me!

For many guys, I am unlikely to be the man of your dreams. Looking for that tall dark and handsome hunk you've been waiting for only the whole of your life? Wrong profile. Abs, pecs, triceps, biceps? Move right along now. Gym bunny, circuit boy, clubber? Try the next profile. A super hot one night stand? Plenty of those kinds tobe found on this site but not on this page. How about the ideal daddy or uncle to teach a newbie the ropes or give him his first experience? Wrong again. Okay, so if those are all the things I am not, what am I? I think I am a good friend to begin with. A giver by nature I have been easy to exploit and take for granted. Perhaps this is because I failed to love myself enough in the past, something I have been working hard to overcome helped along by the lessons life has been repeatedly teaching me. But yes, a friend. Someone who is present and can be counted on as those who really know me can attest. I was going to say fun-loving but while I can enjoy myself and life, I think from the feedback of others it would probably be best for me to acknowledge that I am probably seen as serious through the eyes of others. Most important to me at least, at this time I have come to be at peace with my life and the choices I have made. I believe I am an interesting person to know but that is how I see myself. What remains to be seen is how you see me through your own eyes and experiences of me.

What DO I find important? I stand for Love, Trust and Integrity. Honesty is important. Relationships built on a bedrock of lies and deceit, crumble. I think sincerity is important. Sincerity of intent. Sincerity of feelings. Trust? Yes, trust is important and I have learnt that forgiveness is important too - perhaps I have not been forgiving enough. Or have I been too forgiving too often closing a blind eye when I should not? I am not sure. But sincerity, yes, sincerity. Beyond that any relationship from platonic to intimate is a journey of discovery. And as with any journey there are bound to be smooth passages and rocky ones. There are bound to be predictable situations and unexpected surprises.

Who would I like to have along on a long journey? On any length of journey for that matter? I suppose i'd like a fellow traveller who recognises that as individuals there may be things we may both be interested in and there may be things that only one of us is interested in, and given that, recognises that there will be times when we need to make compromises so that both travellers get the most out of our travels together. Otherwise we might as well go our own separate ways. Sensitivity to each other's interests and needs predicates an interest in finding out what is important to each other which is hardly a problem if there is sincerity of intent. I am hoping for true love. What is true love? Something to reflect on before starting something that could see two people joined for a lifetime.

About

General details

Age 55
Sex Male
Sexuality Gay
Relationship Single
Ethnic Origins Asian
Home Location Petaling Jaya, Selangor, Malaysia

Appearance

Body Shape Average
Height 5.8" (173 cm)
Eye Color Brown
Hair Color Grey
Tattoos None
Piercings One or Two

Characteristics

Artistic Conservative Earthy Intellectual Loving Low Maintenance Practical Quiet Romantic Sensitive Serious Shy Spiritual Spontaneous Stubborn Talkative Unconventional

Looking for

Out-of-Closet Top Looking For A Travel Partner. Life's Journey. That means staying power is essential. Do you have what it takes? Write to me!

For many guys, I am unlikely to be the man of your dreams. Looking for that tall dark and handsome hunk you've been waiting for only the whole of your life? Wrong profile. Abs, pecs, triceps, biceps? Move right along now. Gym bunny, circuit boy, clubber? Try the next profile. A super hot one night stand? Plenty of those kinds tobe found on this site but not on this page. How about the ideal daddy or uncle to teach a newbie the ropes or give him his first experience? Wrong again. Okay, so if those are all the things I am not, what am I? I think I am a good friend to begin with. A giver by nature I have been easy to exploit and take for granted. Perhaps this is because I failed to love myself enough in the past, something I have been working hard to overcome helped along by the lessons life has been repeatedly teaching me. But yes, a friend. Someone who is present and can be counted on as those who really know me can attest. I was going to say fun-loving but while I can enjoy myself and life, I think from the feedback of others it would probably be best for me to acknowledge that I am probably seen as serious through the eyes of others. Most important to me at least, at this time I have come to be at peace with my life and the choices I have made. I believe I am an interesting person to know but that is how I see myself. What remains to be seen is how you see me through your own eyes and experiences of me.

What DO I find important? I stand for Love, Trust and Integrity. Honesty is important. Relationships built on a bedrock of lies and deceit, crumble. I think sincerity is important. Sincerity of intent. Sincerity of feelings. Trust? Yes, trust is important and I have learnt that forgiveness is important too - perhaps I have not been forgiving enough. Or have I been too forgiving too often closing a blind eye when I should not? I am not sure. But sincerity, yes, sincerity. Beyond that any relationship from platonic to intimate is a journey of discovery. And as with any journey there are bound to be smooth passages and rocky ones. There are bound to be predictable situations and unexpected surprises.

Who would I like to have along on a long journey? On any length of journey for that matter? I suppose i'd like a fellow traveller who recognises that as individuals there may be things we may both be interested in and there may be things that only one of us is interested in, and given that, recognises that there will be times when we need to make compromises so that both travellers get the most out of our travels together. Otherwise we might as well go our own separate ways. Sensitivity to each other's interests and needs predicates an interest in finding out what is important to each other which is hardly a problem if there is sincerity of intent. I am hoping for true love. What is true love? Something to reflect on before starting something that could see two people joined for a lifetime.

Desired Activities

Relationship

Requirements

Interested in Men
Aged between 30 - 45

Lifestyle

Lifestyle details

Lives Alone
Faith Spiritual
Has Children None
Wants Children
Education College
Occupation Retired
Income Bracket
Political Interests
Drinks Socially
Diet
Smokes Always
Drugs Never

General interests

Board Games Cooking Dining Out Dramatics Movies Music Photography Reading Strategy Games Surfing the Web Television Walking Writing

Music interests

Classical Disco Jazz RnB Rock Soul

Sports interests