i am interested in an intellectual, emotional and physical M/S relationship.
I desire sensual Domination and almost see myself as a more with Natural DOminant personality. i don’t stereotype those as inherent male traits, but as a writer sometimes i need to use misconceptions to get my point across because at the end of the day clear communication of the message matters the most.
i’m tender, open to my Slave’ feelings but i would also hope i’m knowledgeable enough to be able to not only listen but offer feedback to my compliant. I’m a muscle builder male Dominant, and I pride myself on making my physique as Strong Desire to DOminate as possible. I desire to be a physically strong brute, and at the end of the day I am fine with someone I care about having both spiritual and physical superiority. My intelligence on the other hand I have tried to sharpen to a point where I hope can keep up with or at least be on par with my Slave, that’s one cerebral element of a relationship I’m not willing to skimp on.
i am not looking for an equal relationship, but two people do not have to be equal in order to rely on and support each other.
I have a few out of the box thoughts. I’m definitely open for discussing them. i have put a lot of thought into how this role makes sense to me, and am willing to train and dominate, so I am looking for long term but i do accept part time atleast 2 times a month.
If You’re a sub / slave looking for a brute Master to call Your owner, i can’t promise i’ll be the right one for You, but You can contact me and we can figure out where to go from there.
bdsm is my lifestyle and i've been a master for 10 years now..
Being a Dominant is not like the military where rank assumes obedience. The “rank” of Dominant or Master is not assumed by the Dominant but bestowed by a submissive. This is important because it cuts to the heart of why a Dominant has the authority to give “orders” in the first place. A Dom only has power because he has been granted that power by the submissive. And a submissive grants that power to someone he respects, trusts, desires, and believes has his best interests at heart. He grants it to someone with whom he feels completely safe and protected. So yes, I as a Dominant do in fact give orders. But my orders are not simply motivated by desire for blind obedience but are often targeted at a higher purpose. Sure, often they are for my personal pleasure. But they are also designed to instill knowledge, establish norms of behavior, set expectations for performance, and above all, challenge my sub to be the best person he can possibly be both in and outside our relationship. They are also designed to similarly challenge me. I always strive to be a better person, a better partner, a better Dominant, and have our mutual interests always at heart. Being a Dominant is less about assuming authority than being a leader. A leader earns the right to lead. My sub gives me all the power I have as a Dominant. What I do with that power is up to me. But if I use it unwisely or selfishly, it will evaporate and my sub will opt to vote with his feet. D/s is, after all, a consensual agreement between two free persons and thus can be terminated when one or the other is not satisfied. D/s and even M/s are not true slavery, even when we choose to call it that. Ultimately, the submissive decides who will be his leader or if he will take on a leader at all. It is that decision that empowers the Dominant, and that decision is earned, not taken.
|Relationship||Dating a few people|
|Ethnic Origins||Mixed / Multi|
|Home Location||Singapore, Singapore, Singapore|
|Height||6.0" (183 cm)|
Artistic Open Minded Romantic
Experienced Straight D who firmly believes that Tease and Denial is a much more powerful training and pleasure providing medium than inflicting pain....much more intense pleasures have come my way from raising the heights and expectations of a properly trained sub than I can accurately describe
I am an educated (or at least the degrees say so) professional (or at least I wear the fancy clothes) and try to be very clear up front what I am, what I have to offer, what I want and am VERY discrete and respectful....and I request the same in return.
If I do not offer something that interests you simply be polite and say so, I am confident but not pushy and have no interest in the stalker role. I have found there are people in the lifestyle who are seeking what I can offer so there is little need to push someone to be what they aren't.
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